{"id":44,"date":"2020-10-26T00:26:51","date_gmt":"2020-10-26T00:26:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wilkinsonbeane.com\/blog\/?p=44"},"modified":"2020-09-16T19:29:48","modified_gmt":"2020-09-16T19:29:48","slug":"should-you-worry-about-your-friend-after-cremation-services","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wilkinsonbeane.com\/blog\/should-you-worry-about-your-friend-after-cremation-services\/","title":{"rendered":"Should You Worry About Your Friend After Cremation Services?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are a lot of emotions floating around\u202f<a href=\"https:\/\/www.wilkinsonbeane.com\/funeral-home-cremations-laconia-nh.html\">cremation services in Laconia, NH<\/a>\u202fand you know if you are trying to support a friend through the loss of a loved one, they are going to have to face their grief. There\u2019s no room for judgment around the services, but once those are past and you notice certain things coming up with your friend, you might start to worry. Are you valid in your concerns? Here are a few things that should definitely make you worry about your grieving friend.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They Withdraw From The World\u202f<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While it\u2019s normal for some people to want to be alone at times to deal with their grief on their own, your friend shouldn\u2019t be alone all of the time. If you notice they don\u2019t want to meet you for coffee or allow you to come over and sometimes they don\u2019t even answer the phone or when they do, conversations are short, you might start poking around. Has anyone else seen them? Are they leaning on someone? If you find the answer seems to be no, you certainly have reason to be concerned.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They Don\u2019t Function Well\u202f<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It makes sense that after a hard death, your friend might not have an appetite and they might not sleep much or, on the reverse side, they might sleep all the time. But eventually, those things should level out and they need to be able to function again, even if they are still in pain. If it\u2019s been a week or so and your friend still isn\u2019t functioning, it\u2019s cause for concern. Try to get them to eat when you notice their stomach growling and work on relaxation so they can get some sleep.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They Seem Numb\u202f<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When a loved one dies, it can be like you are in a fog. You go through the motions and get done what needs to be done. But eventually, the grief hits and you deal with it. If your friend seems numb to any emotions, it\u2019s not a good sign. You need to address their thoughts with them and consider trying to get them into a grief support group or to a counselor for the aid they need through this hard time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46\" src=\"https:\/\/wilkinsonbeane.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cremation-services-Laconia-NH.jpg\" alt=\"cremation services in Laconia, NH\" width=\"1043\" height=\"613\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wilkinsonbeane.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cremation-services-Laconia-NH.jpg 1043w, https:\/\/www.wilkinsonbeane.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cremation-services-Laconia-NH-300x176.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.wilkinsonbeane.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cremation-services-Laconia-NH-1024x602.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.wilkinsonbeane.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cremation-services-Laconia-NH-768x451.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.wilkinsonbeane.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cremation-services-Laconia-NH-624x367.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1043px) 100vw, 1043px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your friend is very lucky to have you watching out for them when they are <a href=\"https:\/\/wilkinsonbeane.com\/blog\/forming-cremation-services-around-time-constraints\/\">grieving after\u202fcremation services<\/a> in Laconia, NH.\u202fDo what you can to relieve them of burdens by running errands and doing chores. With any hope, your extra help and their grieving process will move\u202falong at a regular pace. But grief just doesn\u2019t operate on a\u202ftime table\u202fand if you are concerned about your friend, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wilkinsonbeane.com\/contact.html\">contact the professionals<\/a> at\u202fWilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home &amp; Cremation Services\u202ffor further grief resources. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wilkinsonbeane.com\/about-us.html\">We want to help support people<\/a> struggling with grief. Call us for local groups and counselors at\u202f<a href=\"tel:(603)524-4300\">(603) 524-4300<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are a lot of emotions floating around\u202fcremation services in Laconia, NH\u202fand you know if you are trying to support a friend through the loss of a loved one, they are going to have to face their grief. 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